When it comes to How to kiss a girl, we all have different approaches, some of us are very confident and it comes naturally for them, they can pick the hints of the right moment to make their move. For others, it is more difficult, they usually don’t know how to go from a non physical relationship to a physical relationship. For instance, I used to be from the second kind, over rationalizing everything, as a matter of fact, I didn’t kiss a girl before I was 20. If you are going through that period, trust me, I can understand you. But the fact is, today, kissing a girl is not a big deal for me anymore, there is several reasons to that but one of them is that I developed techniques that do work most of the time when it comes down to raising the touch level and eventually kissing a girl.
Let me remind you first that when it comes to kissing, you should have raised the touch level already, she has to be comfortable with you hugging her, touching her arm and just flirting with her.
Anyway, here are some of my favorites :
1- Play with her ego
This one is getting fairly classic but it is quite of a standard when it comes to how to kiss a girl. The idea here is to turn the situation around, have HER want to kiss you. A word of advice though, you want to have a playful attitude before you try this, else, it might seem a bit weird. Anyway, at the point when you want to kiss her, break the conversation and say “On a scale of 1 to 10, how good of a kisser are you?“. Because you play with her ego, she won’t say no or anything, she will want to pride herself and will probably say 8 or above. When she answers, stop for a second and look at her in the eyes, smile and say “let’s see.” and kiss her. This one literally almost never failed me. It is better used in a clubbing environment.
2- The impromptu compliment.
This one works best in a very deep conversation, when you really took time to get to know her more and both of you are exchanging profound ideas about things in life. When you are in this situation, stop her in the middle of a long sentence, say “wait a minute”. Then pause for 2 or 3 seconds, watch her in the eyes and say “You’re incredibly sexy to me right now, please never change”, lean in and make out with her with passion.
3- The impulsive kiss
This one is probably the one where you can have the most fun because it does involve a huge adrenaline rush. It can be like flipping a coin if you can’t see if a girl likes you or not but if you can read the signs properly then it is a very sexy way of doing it from a girl’s point of view. As you are talking to her and both of you are rather isolated to avoid peer pressure, ask her this simple question : “Are you impulsive ?” it doesn’t matter what her answer is, after this say “well I am.” And then make out with her. This one is riskier than the 2 others but is also higher reward. If you can pull it out it makes you come up as a confident ballsy guys and girls love this.
As you can see, how to kiss a girl is not overly hard in practice, it just takes the balls, a leap of faith. The fact is, if your kiss attempt fails, don’t make a big deal out of it, if the girl is still hanging out with you and not running away, she is probably fine with it, she is just not ready yet. Everything comes in time when it comes down to How to kiss a girl.