Many women worry about their performance in the bedroom and are unsure how to turn a guy on. If they get it wrong, it can make the guy laugh or even lose interest. This, in turn, will affect their confidence and make them less likely to try something new.
It is important to remember that every man is different, and what your last partner really enjoyed might turn off your new boyfriend. Some activities will work with the vast majority of men, while others will only work with a small minority. If you want to know how to turn a guy on, read these great tips and try them tonight to see his reaction.
Start with the Mind
Many people believe that the brain is the largest human sexual organ. You can take advantage of this to get him in the mood well before you get into the bedroom. When you are out together, you can give him suggestive looks when nobody else is looking or whisper in his ears to tell him exactly what you want from him later.
Even if you are not together during the day, you can still get him into the mood by sending him suggestive emails or text messages. It might make him uncomfortable at work, but will make you both very happy when he gets home. If you are feeling really brave, you could even send him a saucy photo or video clip to get him really excited.
Watch what you Wear
When you go out together, wear nice clothes that can give him the occasional flash of your body. A top that shows off your cleavage or a skirt that gives him flashes of leg will get him going. Some men might enjoy the idea of other men looking at their girl, but others will get jealous of this, so be careful not to flash too much until you are sure.
Even if you are dressed conservatively, you can still move into positions that show him more of your body without exposing it to others. He will really appreciate a bigger flash of your cleavage when you bend forward in front of him. If you are travelling together in the car you can adjust your clothes or undo an extra button or two to show him a little more flesh.
Move onto the Body
Once you get him alone, there are many great ways to turn him on. If you are both alone together, you could do a suggestive striptease in front of him or walk out of the room and undress on the way to the bedroom leaving a trail of your clothes along the way. This would also work really well if he comes home from work to find the trail of clothes.
One activity that you can almost guarantee to work is to sneak off and put on your sexiest underwear and then parade them in front of him. Or, if you are feeling naughty, put on your underwear and snap a quick photo in the mirror on your phone and send him it as a picture message with texting saying “Want you now!” or similar.
Men are very visual creatures, but you can really use the other senses to help turn him on. As well as sight and sound, you can use touch and smell. One great tool that you can use is your favorite perfume. His brain will subconsciously associate this with being physically close to you.
The sense of touch can really help to turn him on too. If you are out together, keep touching him gently and suggestively. You can pull him close for a lingering kiss to make him really want to get you back home. If you are together, a massage, or back rub, will get him in the mood.
Do not forgot that touch does not just mean the hands. You can nibble and kiss most of his body with your mouth to excite him. Not only that, if you have long hair your can run it over his chest or slowly rub your legs or breasts over his body.
If you do not know how to turn your guy on, try some of these moves when you are together again and he will not be able to keep his hands off you.