We all want to be in love with someone and to feel the security of knowing that they love you. Falling in love leads us to reproduce and continue the species, which is one of the most important human drives. Many single people will tell you “I want to fall in love”, but will not know how to go about it.
If you are in this position, there are methods that you will help you to make someone fall in love with you. Some people might think that this is manipulation, but if you both fall in love and are happy then that does not matter. It is better to manipulate someone for both of you to be happy than it is to spend the rest of your life alone and unhappy. Why not try these great tips to see if you can find someone to love you.
Be Suddenly Unavailable
When you see someone a lot, you will like them more than if you do not see them for a period of time. When you first meet someone, try to spend lots of time with them so that they will get to like you. Be careful, this will not work if their first impression of you is negative.
Once you get to the stage where you both like each other, start to decrease the time you spend together until you rarely see them at all. Suddenly your presence in their life is scarce, and like all rare things it is more attractive. The theory is that they will start to miss you and want to spend more time with you. This is the law of scarcity, and it can be a good way to convince someone to fall for you.
Let them be Nice to You
It is great if you can be nice to someone. You can feel good for your nice deed and you feel warmer towards the recipient. The end result is that we like the person more, and will justify our efforts and expense by telling ourselves that they are wonderful and deserve it.
It stands to reason that a great way to make someone fall for you is to convince them to spoil you, without being so blatant as to suggest it outright. If you can persuade them using subtle methods it will work great, as long as they do not catch you in the act.
The Eyes Have It
Scientific research found that couples in love spend 75% of the time looking at each other when talking and are slower to look away. This compares to normal conversation where it is 30-60% of the time. This gives a scientific way to tell how much two people are in love.
As this is all in the subconscious, it is possible to use this knowledge to trick another person to think that they are in love with you. The next time that you are in conversation with someone that you like, aim to spend 75% of the conversation looking at them. As well as that, you can also take longer to look away when you are talking to them. These techniques can help to fool the subconscious mind into thinking that they are in love with you.
The final thing to remember with the eyes is to practice your “come to bed” look. This just needs you to have big pupils, which can be a sign of excitement. It is not possible to control your pupils, but you can adjust the conditions to give the same effect. If you look towards dim light it will make your pupils expand and give the same effect.
All of these tips will help someone to fall in love with you, but it will need more than this to make that person stay in love with you. That requires spending time together, sharing interests and activities and building a relationship together. As your relationship develops, either of you might decide it is not what they want from life, but many relationships last years or decades and are certainly worth the effort.
If you are single, you might keep telling yourself that “I want to fall in love”, but struggle to find someone that feels the same way about you. When you do meet a person that you like, these tricks can help you to move from friendship to a relationship.