Over the last few years, mobile phones have spread nearly everywhere. This rise in popularity has brought about many great ways to help out dating couples. You can now keep in touch with each other when you want without having to wait in for a pre-arranged phone call. As well as speaking to each other, the latest phones allow you to send emails, instant messages and text messages.
Many people have now started sending saucy messages and pictures to each other to add some spice to their relationship. This digital flirting, or sexting, is a good way to add some fun to the relationship. Couples that participate are often happier and enjoy more fun in the bedroom than other couples that do not. If you are new to sexting, the following sexting examples should help you to get started.
Who to send sexts to
Sexts are a great way to spice up any relationship, and can add some fun to a long-term relationship. It also works great in a new relationship, and you can use it with someone you want to date provided that you are not too explicit. Otherwise it could come across as creepy or offensive.
The following are some great sexting examples to start a conversation:
- “I bet you are wearing something sexy as always”
- “Hey babe, I can’t wait to be with you later”
- “I wish you were here”
As you can see, these examples are all suggestive, rather than explicit. It is best to start like this in case the recipient is not immediately receptive to your sexts.
Once you have started the conversation, you can make it raunchier as it goes along. The following sexting examples are great once the conversation is flowing:
- “Would you let me photograph you? Clothes are optional”
- “I forgot my cologne today. Will you rub your all scent over me?”
- “You. Me. Bed. Soon…”
- “Would you like me to show you a good time?”
These are still suggestive rather than explicit. Hopefully by now the recipient will start replying with the same type of texts.
Once you have both started exchange sexts, you can make them more explicit if you both want to. Some people prefer subtlety, but others like to receive explicit texts.
- “I want to kiss you all over”
- “I can’t wait to see your body”
- “I want you… now!”
- “This bed isn’t as much fun without you!”
You can make these messages as explicit as you are both comfortable with. Remember that the idea is to get someone in the mood for fun rather than cause offense.
If you really want to get someone going, most modern phones will let you take photos and send them as picture messages. Maybe you could be brave and take some photos of yourself and send them with a seductive message. You do not have to be naked on these pictures – you could send a picture of your underwear or with something covering parts of your body. Imagine the effect this could have on your partner if they got these messages while sat at work.
Many modern phones also allow you to film videos and send them as multimedia messages. If you can get over the embarrassment then this can really work on your partner.
If you are going to send this type of message, you need to trust the recipient not to send them on to others without your permission. It would be highly embarrassing if your friends saw your intimate messages and pictures. Another problem that can happen is if the messages are sent to the wrong recipient. Just think how unpopular you will be if sexts meant for your partner are sent to your parents!
Not only can sexting be a great, fun way to add some spice to a relationship, but studies have shown that it can make a relationship happier. It does not matter if you are in a new, or long-term, relationship, it is important to keep flirting with each other. Sexting using your mobile phone allows you to flirt with your partner even when you are apart and can make the next time you are together much more fun.