Everyone always wants to know the best way to text a guy but the truth is that there isn’t a easily defined answer. Everyone is different and everyone reacts different. For some people being flirty and outgoing is easy but for others it is worse than going to the dentist. In the article below you will be given some easy to follow tips on improving your abilities to text that cute boy.
First things first you need to get the guy’s attention. If you see this guy on a regular basis, try wearing flirty clothes. This doesn’t mean to go out and start wearing seductive but it does mean you should look and feel like a million dollars. When you dress up you gain confidence and people recognize that. The guy you like will start noticing the change and you, if he hasn’t already noticed you. The critical thing to remember is that you need to wear clothes you feel comfortable in and that you are confident about wearing. If you try and wear clothing that is out of the ordinary and you are uncomfortable in you will send red flags to the guy and it will hurt your chances of grabbing his attention.
The second thing to know is that you need to be playful and fun. Guys like to be able to joke around with people especially if they like someone. When you are joking around feel free to poke fun at him but don’t go crazy, you don’t want to be mean or hurt his feelings. Also be yourself, the more comfortable you are in the situation the more comfortable he will be. You are probably thinking that I am crazy and you are going to be extremely nervous especially in the beginning because it’s new, but be laid back and relax. He will sense your discomfort and stray away. Look at our 10 best pick-up lines for ideas.
Compliment him. Although you never think about it guys like to hear that they are good looking, smart or funny. You should use some cheese here but also be genuine. When you are cheesy it will break the ice and lighten the mood. The sincerity will reinforce that you like him and are interested and will escalate the relationship. Be sure to compliment him on the things you actually like about him, when you do that it is truly sincere. If you try and make compliments up it will seem fake and make the guy disinterested in you. By showing an interest in him he will reciprocate and show an interest in you.
Finally don’t be afraid to break the sex barrier. Guys are usually criticized and judged when it comes to this stage because lets face it most of them are horny bastards who rush into things before the other person is ready. If you are ready and are initiating the conversations and relationship don’t be afraid to cross that sexual barrier and show him what is on your mind. He will know you are comfortable with talking like that and it will give you one more thing to text about. If you are ready for this stage but unsure of how to go about it check out our articles on sexting.